5 min 0 career masking work Autistic Confessions: Why I Feel Like an Impostor at Work (And What You Don’t See) Rae Elise March 29, 2024 Work is supposed to be about doing your job, right? Show up, complete your tasks,… Read More
5 min 0 confessions connection masking My Biggest Secret: I’m Smart (But I Hide It) Rae Elise December 22, 2023 I have a secret, one I’ve kept hidden for most of my life. It’s not… Read More
5 min 0 connection lifestyle masking I spent the rest of the day trying to act “normal.” Rae Elise May 28, 2023 Imagine someone dancing to music you can’t hear or playing an invisible instrument. That’s what… Read More
4 min 0 autism confessions masking Autistic Confessions: The Day I Was Accused of ‘Not Being Autistic Enough’ Rae Elise March 25, 2023 I’ll never forget the first time someone said to me, “But you don’t look autistic.”… Read More
5 min 0 autism masking You Don’t See My Autism Because I’m Exhausted From Hiding It Rae Elise February 26, 2023 When people say, “You don’t seem autistic,” it’s meant as a compliment, but it doesn’t… Read More
4 min 0 autism masking Passing as Neurotypical: The Hidden Costs of Masking Rae Elise September 9, 2021 If there were an Olympic medal for passing as neurotypical, I’d probably win gold. Years… Read More
5 min 0 autism masking Why I Hide My Intelligence Like a Secret Superhero Rae Elise August 15, 2021 When I was 14, my English teacher handed me back an essay with a big… Read More
5 min 0 autism masking Hidden in Plain Sight: Why Autism Often Looks Different in Women Rae Elise May 21, 2020 When I was 27 and finally diagnosed as autistic, the first thing I thought was:… Read More