5 min 0 aesthetic stigma “But you don’t LOOK autistic?” Rae Elise September 24, 2023 When people say, “But you don’t look autistic,” I’m not sure whether to laugh or… Read More
5 min 0 autism burnout “Rotting in Bed”: A Rebellion Against Overproductivity Rae Elise September 18, 2023 “Rotting in bed.” The phrase sounds dramatic, almost poetic, doesn’t it? Like a haunting line… Read More
5 min 0 Uncategorized I didn’t fit the mold. Rae Elise September 8, 2023 Growing up, autism was always described as something boys had. Boys who didn’t make eye… Read More
5 min 0 aesthetic girlstuff stigma Why Autism Looks So Different in Girls: The Stories We Hide Rae Elise September 6, 2023 I was 29 when I was diagnosed with autism. For nearly three decades, I thought… Read More
5 min 0 connection girlstuff romance Navigating Dating and Romance as an Autistic Woman Rae Elise August 22, 2023 The text came in on a Thursday afternoon: “Would you like to grab dinner sometime?”… Read More
6 min 0 identity solitude Loneliness vs. Solitude: Why I Need Time Alone to Survive Rae Elise August 13, 2023 There’s a difference between loneliness and solitude, but it’s not always easy to explain. Loneliness… Read More
4 min 0 solitude treatment Meditation for Autistic Brains: It’s Not What You Think Rae Elise July 23, 2023 When you hear the word “meditation,” you probably imagine someone sitting cross-legged in perfect silence,… Read More
4 min 0 autism burnout Sensory Hangovers Are a Thing, and Here’s How I Survive Them Rae Elise July 12, 2023 I didn’t know what a sensory hangover was until my mid-twenties. Before that, I thought… Read More
4 min 0 autism science When Intrusive Thoughts Take the Wheel: My Strategies for Fighting Back Rae Elise June 12, 2023 Imagine your brain is a radio, and someone’s cranked the volume on a station you… Read More
5 min 0 connection lifestyle masking I spent the rest of the day trying to act “normal.” Rae Elise May 28, 2023 Imagine someone dancing to music you can’t hear or playing an invisible instrument. That’s what… Read More